Everyday is a day you can learn something new.
One day, or day one. You decide!
LJM Equine Riding Coach and Horse Trainer
LJM Equine Riding Coach and Horse Trainer Based in the West Midlands.
Training focussed on a mutual understanding between horse and human to achieve effective communication and a stronger partnership. Drawing on all aspects of my experience from Rider Biomechanics to Natural Horsemanship, depending on the needs and preferences of the horse and rider, I tailor my lessons to suit you!
Do you want a coach who is passionate and fun? Do you want to know what to do AND why you’re doing it? Give me a call or drop me a message, and I’ll be happy to discuss your training needs. We can even arrange a visit to meet you and your horse, without any pressure to fill a weekly slot.
Working with the rider
Having trained with Rider Biomechanics guru Mary Wanless and her team, and continually learning more about how a rider’s body works, through Equestrian Movement classes, I can help you adjust your position to have a secure seat and effective aids. This can boost your confidence if your horse has any challenging behaviours, and put you in a place to be able to do something about it. It can also boost your performance if you compete, as it puts your body in the best place for your horse to work correctly too!
Working with the horse
Horses behaviour (when it isn’t going our way) is often put down to them being challenging, difficult or naughty, but most of the time it’s your horse trying to tell you something! Every horse is different, just as every person is different, which is why I don’t have a ‘one size fits all’ approach. Combined with getting the rider in a good place I look to get the horse working in a balanced, responsive and calm way to set them up to succeed under saddle.
Working on the ground
Whether you have specific problems on the ground or you would like to incorporate ground work for variety, I can show you how. I’ve researched and trained in a variety of different methods, and my main aim here is to set you both up to understand each other, and be able to overcome any obstacles or challenges safely when working on the ground. Horses and humans working together and horses being ridden isn’t in itself natural, so I work on the principle that the horses are clever enough to know this. We sometimes use ‘herd leader’ behaviour to help our horses look to us as a safe and secure place to be, but horses don’t ride each other round the field, clip each other or compete over fences or in a dressage arena! Most of my ground work is geared towards functionality, preparing the horses body to be able to cope with the weight of a rider and it’s mind to be able to calmly respond to our ‘human’ requests.
Back to basics
It would be good for him to go back to basics… Maybe you should go over the basics again… Perhaps you need to go back to basics… It’s a good idea to go back to basics… and so on and so forth. How many times have you heard one the above phrases? How many times have you said one of them (or words to that effect)?
We all know that ‘going back to basics’ is a good idea, and at times could be necessary to help you move forward. No matter where you have gotten to in your training and no matter where your horse is in his training, the basics are important. If you don’t have some key fundamentals it won’t be long before you start to get problems and reach road blocks, and you have to go back and start all over again. Many times you will have to undo some of the work you’ve done, in order to get the basics going right again, before you can move on!
How many times have you actually done it? For more than five minutes? For more than one day? It isn’t a phrase anyone really wants to hear. It gives us the feeling of going backwards, of getting worse instead of better, and of feeling incompetent. A yet we all know it’s nothing to be ashamed of, and needs to be done from time to time. I believe it’s important for us as much as it is for our horses.
This topic was bought to the front of my mind today while I was riding. Last week I rode a new horse for the first time. This horse (Nip) is an Endurance horse and I’m riding her (and potentially a few others) alongside her owner to help her with her time. Her owner (E) has recently moved with the horses from another country so has a lot on her plate with getting the new yards and fields set up and keeping her horses exercised. She advertised for a rider to help and having had a passing interest in Endurance I thought this would be an excellent opportunity for me to learn more about the sport while being a part of a team preparing the horses. E is also a BHS AI and has been competing internationally in Endurance for some time, so I’m sure to be learning a lot from her while working alongside her.
That first ride I felt like I was all over the place. E wanted to see me ride in the little area of field she uses for schooling. The thought of people watching and appraising my riding always makes me nervous. The background I was given about Nip is that she is quite sensitive, can be silly but won’t do anything nasty and hasn’t been ridden for about 12 months. Ps. Nip is an Arab, and my main experience with Arabs comes from my old Mare Coffee. Coffee was no easy ride either but rather than making me feel better about this situation it made me feel worse. It’s been a few years now since Coffee left us and a few more than that since I was really riding her regularly. I don’t know if I will be able to gel with this horse like I did with her, and I didn’t know if I wanted to either. Coffee really was my one in a million, no other horse will ever take her place, and just because this is another Arab mare it does not mean we will be able to get along. I would also really like this to work out and after E explains she is quite particular about how her horses are ridden I’m even more nervous. I manage to get it together enough not to make a complete hash of it, Nip and I seem to get along alright but I wouldn’t say we made friends or anything. I think Nip takes a lot more than a 20 minute ride to win her over and it sure wasn’t my best riding! E seemed happy enough to let me return again this week though and gave me some pointers to go away with. While I was riding another horse this morning I finally remembered to give it some thought.
The pointers had to do with the weight distribution in my stirrups from left to right. I was putting more weight down through my left stirrup than my right which was giving Nip the opportunity to fall through her shoulder. I can assure you it’s been a little while since I looked at my position, and weight distribution in the saddle and stirrups is one of the first things we do when we learn. I can remember it being drilled in to us in those early riding schools lessons, ‘Even weight in both stirrups, heels down, long legs, one leg either side of him…’ and so on. So, essentially I’m going back to basics; again. My morning rides went well and I managed to reflect on my weight distribution, found a good fix to get the right muscles engaged to balance me out, and I’m really glad I did it. Nip proved to be just as testing on our hack round the nearby field, and I really needed to be on my game. She’s quite skilled at gradually and gently pushing you of balance to slowly get you to follow her thoughts! I relaxed quicker today, and Nip and I got on better than last time (even though we had a little more wiggling about and strops from her) as I felt we had a job to do, rather than just having my riding scrutinised.
I’m always going back and revisting things I’ve done in the past. I’ve had to go back to the begining with Buddy and loading after he had a bit of an episode (this has taken some time but we are now loading again as well as we ever have). I’ve noticed in the last month or so Buddy has started to show signs of tension when being tacked up and mounted, so Freya and I are going back to basics with tacking up and really concentrating on how we present ourselves to him. This was clearly having a knock on effect in ridden work as a few niggles in riding have disappeared all on their own after we’ve started taking this time to go over ‘old ground’.
I had revisited the basics with a new appreciation for them. I’d been able to look in to them deeper, and I now have more knowledge and skills as a rider and coach than the last time I looked at these areas. This means I’m not just ‘going back to basics’ I’m adding a new level to the basics and scrutinising them in a new light in greater detail.
So the point I want to get across is, the next time you feel you are having trouble moving forward maybe you need to try ‘going back to basics’. Try not to look at it in a diminishing light. Consider the new knowledge you can bring to the table when looking at the basics, and see it as a chance to go a polish these skills. I can assure you taking the time with them, really breaking them down and opening up the topics can be quite interesting, and it’s certain to help you improve. When you go back to these basics and find they are rusty, don’t be disheartened, you knew that already, that’s why you went back.
“If you’re not willing to go back every day and start over, you shouldn’t have started to begin with, because you might have to start over a lot of days in a row before it carries over from one day to the next, or one month to the next or one year to the next. I could start over 500 days in a row and it doesn’t bother me a bit. I’m going to be the same guy at the beginning of the day each day as what I was the day before. Not everybody has that in them. I often tell people that it doesn’t make any difference to me where I start my day, it makes a difference to me where I finish my day. Did I leave things a little better off than how I started? It doesn’t have to be perfect, but if it’s just a little better off than how I started, I got along just fine.” – Buck Brannaman